When your child comes home and informs you that he or she wants to play a sport like soccer, it can be great. Certainly, it may mean some extra work on your part, driving the child to and from practice, going to games and all of that, but also it means that your son or daughter is about to embark on a very significant experience that will greatly affect the rest of their life. Team sports can create an excellent foundation for basic concepts that are needed throughout the rest of their life, like working together in a team, organization, strategy and bonding with your teammates.
If you really want to encourage your kid to enjoy the sport, it is important to keep a few things in mind. A great deal of their experience with soccer or any other sport will have to do with you, so you want to make sure that you are there to be supportive without going to the extreme of being overbearing. If it is possible, try to attend as many practices as you can, but take note of whether or not you are distracting your son or daughter from what they need to do. Chances are you’ll still get your bonding time with them when they want to tell you all about what happened at practice afterwards.
Another thing to think about is how you react to the games or practices that you do watch. Letting your child or their friends see you yelling and swearing at a ref or at the team in general for a bad play will not help anybody.
Probably the most important thing that a parent, coach, or any other adult involved with the game experience can do is to make sure that all corrections or advice given to the child to help their game is done in a positive manner. A parent, coach or other involved adult should not ever be allowed to yell at or demean the children for mistakes that they make during the course of the game, nor should they ever insult or otherwise embarrass them. Keep their minds as engaged as possible and they will gain more muscle control and continue to be interested in what they are doing.
Helping them practice it on their own is a great way to encourage them without tearing them down. Demonstrate how to kick, trap or head the ball, and tell them why it is important to do so; with positive reinforcement they will learn very quickly.
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